Relationships! or what!!

When it comes to relationships what comes to your mind? Well what comes to my mind is being happy but who is really happy in a relationship? In a relationship it takes time to figure the person out. What I mean by that is the guy or girl a liar, cheater or how about perfect.  In time we all realize if we are happy or not. Before you even get in the relationship there is the talking period. I won’t lie to you this part sucks because in my own experience its like can you get mad if he is talking to other girls? Or how long is it going to be until you get in a relationship? The confusion keeps on going until the signs are clear. Sometimes we go long periods of time and realize we wasted our time but then sometimes we realize they are the one.  Currently I have been dating which a lot of my generation believes that dating is actually in a relationship but if we think back to our parents or siblings or actually movies. Dating is going out on several dates before officially being in a relationship. It doesn't have to be the same person either. Some people would say that’s promiscuity but it’s not, look at it as if you are being old school.

  On date you can really do anything, like just hanging out or going to the movies or just simple things like getting a quick bite to eat.

 I am dating a guy that is completely different then what I am use to. I usually date the “bad boy” type or my friends tell me I need to higher my standards. So dating this new guy is actually pretty interesting he is bringing my child hood back or bringing the relaxed happy me and this guy is the type who lives day by day and always reminding me I can do anything I can put my mind to. This guy is definitely different and probably a great future boyfriend but right now I like this thing called dating!

What I am trying to say is relationships aren’t easy nor is being single but try dating, look at someone you usually wouldn’t you never know, he or she could be the one for you!